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From: komos |
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October 29th, 2003 09:34 am (UTC)
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See, I think that reality is just that, reality. In my mind, vampirism of this sort happens when someone, in the course of avoiding their own reality, creates a situation to draw off of the strength of another.
And yes, I think that there's a difference between having difficulties and asking for help and creating a situation to deflect other difficulties. But even there, regardless of any help a person may reeceive, any problems a person has must ultimately be addressed by that person.
I guess this is all by way of saying that I need my energy to cope with my own issues, and that I take issue with being asked to fix things for others. Or, to put it more colorfully, I am not a dancing monkey.
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