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why_style From: why_style Date: September 7th, 2005 07:50 pm (UTC) (Link)

Re: i probably can't offer comfort either, but here i am fruitlessly attempting to say something

yeah, i guess "meant to be" was a poor choice of words, cuz i didn't really mean fate. generally, i'm not big in the fate camp, but when it comes to relationships, things just seems so unquantifiable that i feel like in a sense it either works or doesn't and there's not always an explanation. sure, there are decisions you make that affect the circumstances, and i do believe that there is a measure of work involved in a relationship- it doesn't "just happen." but the circumstances can be perfect and things still don't always click. you can really love someone and still be incompatible is what i'm saying i guess and you may never know why that is.

but you feel lost, and why shouldn't you? it's a big change, and probably one that feels like it could have been avoided, but knowing and feeling aren't necessarily connected. i just don't want you to get lost in the maze of wondering "what if this" or "if only that" because frustrating as it is, i don't think there's always an explanation to these things. feel what you feel, regret if you have regrets, change something if you feel this has sparked the need to change, do whatever it takes to get through, but from my experience it still might never make sense.
komos From: komos Date: September 7th, 2005 07:58 pm (UTC) (Link)


It's Another Frickin' Growth Experience. I'm not sure it's really supposed to make sense.

Dunno. Like I've said elsewhere, I'll be ok. It's just a matter of navigating all of the mixed feelings and finding ways to live with it and myself.
why_style From: why_style Date: September 7th, 2005 08:02 pm (UTC) (Link)


:( growth shmowth. i do believe you will be okay, because you are a good person. i just hate to see a good person beat himself up and think he's failed at something when the dice may have been weighted in the first place.
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